Koi Dil Tod de to kya kare ( What after breakup ? )


Agar koi aapka dil tod de, to Islam humein sabr aur Allah ki taraf rujoo karne ki naseehat karta hai. Aaye is masle ko Islamic waqiyat aur references ke zariye samajhte hain.

1. Sabr aur Istiqamat

Allah Qur'an mein farmata hai:
"Innama yuwaffa al-sabiroona ajrahum bighayri hisab."
(Surah Az-Zumar, 39:10)
Yaani, sabr karne walon ko Allah be-hisab ajar ata karega. Jab dil toota ho, to sabr aur Allah par bharosa karna sabse behtareen tareeqa hai.

2. Hazrat Ayyub (AS) ka waqiya

Hazrat Ayyub (AS) ki zindagi ek misaal hai. Jab unka sab kuch chhin gaya, to unhone Allah ki ibadat aur shukar ada karna nahi chhoda. Allah ne unki azmaish ka ajar diya aur unko bepanah ni’matein lota di. Yeh waqiya humein sikhaata hai ke mushkilaat mein Allah se shikayat nahi karni chahiye, balke us par bharosa rakhna chahiye.

3. Dil ka dukh Allah ke hawale karein

Hazrat Muhammad (SAW) ne ek hadees mein farmaya:
"Jab tumhe koi takleef ho, to Allah se dua karo aur sabr karo. Allah tumhari madad zaroor karega."
(Sahih Bukhari)
Jab dil toota ho, to dua ke zariye Allah se apne jazbaat share karna behtareen ilaj hai.

4. Maf karna aur aage badhna

Hazrat Yusuf (AS) ka waqiya bhi misaal hai, jab unke bhaiyon ne unke saath zyadti ki, lekin unhone unko maaf kar diya. Allah ne unka darja buland kiya. Maafi dena dil ka bojh halka kar deta hai aur insaan ke iman ko mazboot karta hai.

Amal karne ka tareeqa:

1. Dua karein: "Ya Allah, mujhe sabr aur himmat de, aur mere dil ke dukh ko door farma."


2. Namaz mein tasalli dhoondein: Namaz ek aisi ibaadat hai jo dil ko sukoon deti hai.


3. Qur'an ki tilawat karein: Qur'an hidayat aur tasalli ka sabse behtareen zariya hai.


4. Maf karne ki aadat dalain: Maafi Allah ki raza ke kareeb le jati hai.



Aakhir mein, yaad rakhein ke Allah insaan ke liye usi cheez ka intekhab karta hai jo uske haq mein behtareen hoti hai. Jab ek darwaza band hota hai, to Allah uska behtareen badal zaroor deta hai.


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