Ramzan Mein Bhi Girlfriend-Boyfriend? – Ek Sochnay Wali Baat
Bismillah hir Rahman nir Raheem
Ramzan ek pak mahina hai jo sirf rozay rakhne ka nahi, balki apni zindagi ko Allah ki raza ke mutabiq dalne ka bhi ek moka hai. Ye mahina hume apni ghaltiyon se tauba karne, apni nafsani khwahishat par qabu paane aur apni ruhani halat ko behtar banane ka ek chance deta hai.
Lekin afsos, aaj kal ke naujawan is mubarak mahine ka bhi ehtiram nahi karte. Rozay rakhte hain, magar haram rishtay bhi chalatay hain. Subah se iftar tak bhookh pyaas bardasht karte hain, magar mobile par late night girlfriend ya boyfriend se baatein karte hain, chatting aur video calls karte hain. Kya ye Ramzan ka maqsood hai?
Islamic Waqiyat aur Naseehat
1. Ramzan ka Maqsad Kya Hai?
Allah Ta’ala ne farmaya:
يَا أَيُّهَا الَّذِينَ آمَنُوا كُتِبَ عَلَيْكُمُ الصِّيَامُ كَمَا كُتِبَ عَلَى الَّذِينَ مِنْ قَبْلِكُمْ لَعَلَّكُمْ تَتَّقُونَ
(Surah Al-Baqarah: 183)
"Aey Imaan walon! Tum par roza farz kiya gaya jaise tumse pehle logon par farz kiya gaya tha, taa ke tum taqwa ikhtiyar karo."
Taqwa ka matlab hai haram se bacha jana, sirf khana peena chor dena taqwa nahi hai. Jab banda Ramzan mein bhi haram rishtay nibhatay rahe, to ye kaisa taqwa?
2. Gunahon Se Bacha Jaye – Waqia Hazrat Yusuf (A.S.)
Hazrat Yusuf (A.S.) ko ek aurat ne gunaah ki taraf bulaya, magar aap ne farmaya:
"Ma’azAllah!" (Mai Allah ki panaah maangta hoon!)
Jab Yusuf (A.S.) jaise buzurg gunaah se darte hain, to hum kaun hote hain jo Ramzan mein bhi haram mohabbat mein lage rahain? Kya hume Allah ka dar nahi?
3. Waqia Hazrat Umar (R.A.) aur Ek Naujavaan
Ek dafa Hazrat Umar Farooq (R.A.) ne dekha ke ek naujavaan ek aurat se mohabbat karne laga hai. Aap ne usse farmaya:
"Mohabbat sirf halal rishtay mein ho sakti hai, warna ye fitna ban jati hai."
Agar aaj ke naujawano ko ye samajh aa jaye to wo apni izzat ka bhi sochen aur akhirat ka bhi.
Ramzan ka Ihtiram Karo – Gunah Se Bacho
Ramzan sirf rozay rakhne ka naam nahi, balki apni aankhon, kaanon, zabaan aur dil ko bhi paak rakhne ka waqt hai.
Jo shaitan poore saal insaan ko behkane ka kaam karta hai, wo Ramzan mein qaid hota hai. Phir bhi agar koi haram rishtay mein laga rahe, to iska matlab shaitan uske andar baith gaya hai.
Apni mohabbat ko halal banao ya usse chhod do. Girlfriend-boyfriend ka rishta Islam mein hai hi nahi.
Akhri Naseehat
Ek buzurg ne kaha tha:
"Jo cheez dunya mein haram hai, wo aakhirat mein azaab banegi."
Agar hum Ramzan mein bhi haram mohabbat karte rahay, to socho Allah ki narazgi ka kya hoga? Kya yehi Ramzan ka adab hai? Allah hume hidayat de, gunahon se bachne ki taufeeq de, aur halal mohabbat nasib kare. Ameen.
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