Shaitan Kis Tarah Miya Biwi Ke Beech Jhagde Lagata Hai

Shaitan Kis Tarah Miya Biwi Ke Beech Jhagde Lagata Hai

Assalam-o-Alaikum dosto, aaj hum ek ahem topic par baat karenge, "Shaitan kis tarah miya biwi ke beech jhagde lagata hai." Har rishte ki buniyad mohabbat, ehsaan aur sabr hoti hai, magar Shaitan hamesha koshish karta hai ke wo in buniyadon ko kamzor kare aur miya biwi ke beech faasla paida kare. Aaj hum is par tafseel se baat karenge ke kaise Shaitan apni chalain chalta hai aur kis tarah hum is se bach sakte hain.

1. Shaitan Ka Sab Se Bara Hadaf: Rishte Torna

Sab se pehle, humein yeh samajhna hoga ke Shaitan ka asli maqsad insano ko gumrah karna aur unhein Allah Ta'ala ke raaste se hataana hai. Hadith mein aata hai ke Shaitan ki sab se badi khushi tab hoti hai jab wo miya biwi ke beech talaq ya jhagra kara de. Hazrat Jabir (R.A) se riwayat hai ke Rasool Allah ﷺ ne farmaya, "Iblees apne takht par baithta hai aur apne lashkaron ko bhejta hai... Sab se qareebi usay lagta hai jo sab se bara fitna uthata hai... Ek aata hai aur kehta hai ke maine falan shakhs ke beech mein jhagra dal diya... Iblees kehta hai, 'Tu ne kuch nahi kiya.' Phir ek aur aata hai aur kehta hai, 'Main ne ek shohar aur uski biwi ko alag kar diya.' To Iblees use apne qareeb le aata hai aur kehta hai, 'Ahsan kaam kiya.'" (Sahih Muslim)

Is hadith se humein pata chalta hai ke Shaitan ka sab se bara target miya biwi ke darmiyan jhagde aur talaq dalwana hota hai.

2. Shaitan Kis Tarah Jhagde Lagata Hai

Shaitan kayi tareeqon se miya biwi ke beech faasla paida karta hai. Yeh kuch aam tareeqe hain jo aksar logon ko samajh nahi aate:

Ghalat Fehmiyan Paida Karna: Shaitan hamesha aise haalat paida karta hai ke miya biwi ek dosray ko galat samjhen. Maslan, agar shohar kaam se thaka hua ghar aaye aur biwi usay aram karne ka time na de, to Shaitan dono ke dil mein yeh daal deta hai ke "Tumhara shohar tumhain time nahi de raha" ya "Tumhari biwi tumhari ahmiyat nahi samajh rahi." Yeh choti choti baatain bara jhagra ban sakti hain agar humein waqt par yeh samajh na aaye ke yeh Shaitan ki chaal hai.

Takabbur aur Ananiyat Ko Barhawa Dena: Shaitan insaan ke dil mein takabbur aur ego dalta hai. Miya biwi ke darmiyan agar koi ikhtilaaf ho jaye, to Shaitan dono ko apni baat manwane par zyada zor dene ka hila deta hai. Yeh sabr aur samajhdari ki jagah apni baat manwane ke chakkar mein hota hai. Shaitan yeh chahta hai ke hum apni ghalti ko kabhi na maanain aur doosre ko har surat mein galat samjhein.

Baat Ko Barha Kar Pesh Karna: Shaitan ko choti choti baatain ko barha kar pesh karna bohot achi tarah aata hai. Maslan, agar biwi ne kisi baat par shohar se thoda gila kiya, to Shaitan usay exaggerate kar ke shohar ke dil mein ghussa daal deta hai. Yeh choti choti baatain dheere dheere bade jhagre mein tabdeel ho jati hain.

Dosron Ki Zindagi Se Muqabla Karna: Aaj kal Shaitan ka aik aur tareeqa hai jo social media ke zariye hota hai. Wo humein dosron ki zindagi ka hasad karne par majboor karta hai. Miya biwi aksar doosri shaadiyon ko dekh kar apni zindagi se na-khush ho jate hain. Shaitan yeh kaam is liye karta hai taake hum apni zindagi mein shukr aur qana'at se door ho jayein.

Waqiya: Hazrat Ibrahim (A.S) Aur Shaitan Ki Waswasay

Ek aur qissa jo humein Quran aur Ahadith mein milta hai wo Hazrat Ibrahim (A.S) ka hai. Jab Hazrat Ibrahim (A.S) ko Allah Ta’ala ne apne farzand Hazrat Ismail (A.S) ki qurbani dene ka hukam diya, to Shaitan ne kayi dafa unhein waswasa diya. Us waqt Hazrat Ibrahim (A.S) apni biwi Hazrat Hajra (R.A) aur apne farzand ke darmiyan faasla dalne ki koshish ki. Shaitan Hazrat Ibrahim (A.S) ko unke apne ahbab aur biwi ke zariye rokna chahta tha, lekin Allah Ta'ala ki rehmat se unho ne is sabar ka imtihaan paas kiya.

Is qissay se yeh sabak milta hai ke Shaitan hamesha humari zindagi ke sab se pyaare rishtey par attack karta hai, chaahe wo walidain aur aulad ka rishte ho ya miya biwi ka. Us ka maqsad hamesha dushmani aur nafrat paida karna hota hai.

Waqiya: Ek Shohar Aur Biwi Ka Jhagra

Hazrat Ali (R.A) aur Hazrat Fatima (R.A) ke darmiyan ek martaba kuch ikhtilaaf paida hua. Hazrat Ali (R.A) ghar se nikal gaye aur masjid mein so gaye. Jab Rasool Allah ﷺ ko yeh baat pata chali, to aap ﷺ unke paas gaye aur dekha ke unke kapron par mitti lagi hui thi. Rasool Allah ﷺ ne unhein "Qum Ya Aba Turab" kaha, yani "O Abu Turab, uth jao." Phir aap ﷺ unhein le kar wapas Hazrat Fatima (R.A) ke paas gaye aur dono ke darmiyan sulah karai.

Yeh waqiya humein yeh samjhata hai ke ikhtilaaf kisi bhi rishtey mein ho sakta hai, lekin Rasool Allah ﷺ ka rawaiya hamesha sulah aur aman ka tha. Shaitan chhoti chhoti baaton ko barha kar hamesha nafrat aur jhagra paida karta hai, magar humein chahiye ke hum sulah aur maafi se kaam lein.

Dosto shaitan jhagde paida karne ke liye in cheezo ka sabse jyada istemal karta hai :

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3. Shaitan Se Bachne Ka Tareeqa

Ab sawal yeh paida hota hai ke hum Shaitan ki in chaalon se kaise bach sakte hain? Is ka jawab Allah Ta'ala ne Quran aur Rasool Allah ﷺ ne apni sunnat ke zariye diya hai.

Taqwa Aur Sabr Se Kaam Lena: Allah Ta'ala ne Quran mein farmaya, "Aur Shaitan tumhara khula dushman hai, to usay apna dushman samjho." (Surah Fatir: 6). Hamesha yaad rakho ke agar koi ikhtilaaf ya jhagra ho, to pehle apne dil mein yeh baat daal lo ke Shaitan hamesha dushmani ko barhawa dene ki koshish karega. Is liye sabr aur taqwa se kaam lena chahiye.

Isteghfar Aur Tauba: Har waqt apne aamaal par nazar rakhni chahiye aur Allah Ta'ala se maafi maangni chahiye. Shaitan insaan ke gunnah ko barha kar dikhata hai aur use Allah se door karta hai. Magar jab hum tauba karte hain, to Allah Ta'ala hamesha humein maaf karta hai aur humein Shaitan ke daamon se bacha leta hai.

Sabar Aur Afu: Rasool Allah ﷺ ne farmaya, "Behtareen shakhs wo hai jo apni biwi ke liye behtareen ho." (Tirmizi). Miya biwi ke beech mohabbat aur ehsaan ka rishtey ko afu aur sabr se mazid mazboot kiya ja sakta hai. Agar Shaitan koshish kare bhi ke faasla paida ho, to afu aur maafi ke zariye usay roka ja sakta hai.

Dua Aur Qurani Ayat Ka Wazifa: Aksar Shaitan ke waswason se bachne ke liye Qurani ayat aur dua ka wazifa bhi madadgar hota hai. Surah Al-Ikhlas, Surah Al-Falaq, aur Surah An-Nas ko din mein teen martaba parhna chahiye. Yeh Shaitan ke shar se bachne ka zabardast tareeqa hai.

Ek Dilchasp Waqiya: Shaitan Ki Haar

Ek baar ek buzurg ke paas ek shakhs aaya aur bola ke uske ghar mein bohot jhagre hote hain. Buzurg ne kaha, "Tumhare ghar ke andar ek chhota Iblees chhupa hota hai jo tum dono ke darmiyan jhagre lagata hai. Jab bhi jhagra shuru ho, Allah ka zikr karo, aur Shaitan ko un baaton se khauf aayega." Us shakhs ne is par amal kiya aur dheere dheere uske ghar mein sakoon aana shuru ho gaya.

Yeh waqiya humein yeh sabak deta hai ke Allah ka zikr aur Shaitan se panaah mangna sab se behtareen tareeqa hai apne ghar ko Shaitan ke shar se mehfooz rakhne ka.

4. Iblis Ka Khusoosi War: Talaq

Shaitan ke paas miya biwi ko alag karne ke liye bohot si chalain hain, aur talaq uski sab se badi jeet hoti hai. Talaq ka lafz zaban par laana bohot bara kaam hota hai aur Shaitan yeh chahta hai ke hum ghusse mein is lafz ko istamaal karein. Is liye hamesha apne ghusse par qabo paana bohot zaroori hai. Rasool Allah ﷺ ne farmaya, "Ghussa Shaitan ki taraf se hota hai, aur Shaitan aag se bana hai. Jab kisi ko ghussa aaye, to wo wuzu kare." (Abu Dawood)

Conclusion

Dosto, hamesha yaad rakhein ke miya biwi ka rishtey ko mazboot banana Shaitan ke liye ek bari haar hoti hai. Usay yeh cheez bardasht nahi hoti ke ek shaadi shuda zindagi khushi aur mohabbat se guzaray. Is liye wo har waqt koshish karta hai ke jhagre, nafrat aur talaq ke zariye is rishte ko kamzor kare. Magar agar hum sabr, taqwa, aur Allah Ta'ala ki madad ke saath is rishtey ko sambhalein, to Shaitan kabhi bhi apni chaal mein kaamyab nahi hoga.

Allah Ta'ala se dua hai ke wo humein Shaitan ki chaalon se bachaaye aur humare gharon ko aman aur mohabbat ka markaz banaaye. Ameen.

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References:

Sahih Muslim

Tirmizi

Surah Fatir: 6

Abu Dawood