Miya biwi aapas me muhabbat kaise badhaye ?


Islam mein, miya biwi ke beech muhabbat aur apas mein mohabbat badhane ke liye kuch tareeqe aur hidayaat diye gaye hain :

1. **Ikhlaaq aur Husn-e-Muasharat**: Aapas mein ikhlaaq se pesh aana aur ek dusre ki izzat karna zaroori hai. Khush ikhlaaqi aur khidmat se muhabbat badhti hai.

2. **Dua Aur Allah Se Madad Maangna**: Miya biwi ko chahiye ke wo Allah se dua karein ke unke dilon mein ek dusre ke liye mohabbat paida ho. "Rabbana hablana min azwajina wa dhurriyyatina qurrata a'yun" jaisi duaen padhi ja sakti hain.

3. **Aapas Mein Samajhdari Aur Muaafi**: Har rishte mein choti moti naraazgiyan hoti hain, lekin unhein samajhdari se suljhana chahiye. Ek dusre ki galti ko maaf karne ka jazba rakhna chahiye.

4. **Aapas Mein Taluqaat Ko Sudharna**: Islam mein talaaq ko pasand nahi kiya gaya. Miya biwi ko chahiye ke wo apne taalluqaat ko behtar banane ki koshish karein aur choti choti baaton ko bardasht karein.

5. **Ek Dusre Ke Liye Mohabbat Bhare Lafz Istemaal Karna**: Rasool Allah (SAW) ne hamesha apni biwi ke saath pyaar aur mohabbat se baat ki. Is liye, ek dusre se mohabbat bhare alfaz mein baat karna zaroori hai.

6. **Ek Dusre Ko Tohfa Dena**: Hadith mein aata hai ke tohfa dene se mohabbat badhti hai. Miya biwi choti choti khushiyon ke liye ek dusre ko tohfa de sakte hain.

7. **Aapas Mein Waqt Guzarna**: Miya biwi ko chahiye ke wo ek dusre ke saath waqt guzarein, baat cheet karein, muskurayein, aur ek dusre ki khushi mein shamil hon.

8. **Ek Dusre Ki Khidmat Karna**: Miya biwi ko chahiye ke wo ek dusre ki khidmat karen aur chhoti chhoti zarooraton ka khayal rakhain. Khidmat se dil mein mohabbat paida hoti hai. Hadith ke mutabiq, Rasool Allah (SAW) apne ghar walon ke kaam mein madad karte thay.

9. **Shukriya Ada Karna**: Ek dusre ki efforts aur qadr ko samajhna aur shukriya ada karna chahiye. Aksar ye chhoti chhoti baatein mohabbat ko barhati hain aur ek dusre ki qadr ko samajhne mein madad deti hain.

10. **Saath Mein Ibadat Karna**: Miya biwi agar saath mil kar ibadat karein, jaise namaz padhna, Quran parhna, ya kisi Islamic dars mein shamil hona, toh is se roohani tor par taalluqat mazboot hotay hain.

11. **Aapas Mein Acha Ikhtalaf Karna**: Har rishtay mein ikhtalaf hotay hain, lekin zaroori hai ke unhein suljhaane ka tareeqa tehzeeb aur sukoon se ho. Aapas mein samajhdari ke saath ikhtalafat ko door kiya ja sakta hai.

12. **Ek Dusre Ke Ghar Walon Ka Izzat Aur Khayal Karna**: Aksar rishtay is liye bhi majboot hotay hain jab miya biwi ek dusre ke ghar walon ki izzat aur khidmat kartay hain. Yeh rishton mein tahammul aur mohabbat ko barhate hain.

13. **Suljhe Huye Lehaaz Mein Tanaazaat Ka Hal Dhoondhna**: Agar koi masla ya tanaazah paida hota hai, toh usko suljhe huye aur theek tareeqe se hal karna chahiye, bina ghusse ya shor sharabe ke.

14. **Ek Dusre Ki Pasandeedgi Ka Khayal Rakhna**: Miya biwi ko chahiye ke wo ek dusre ki pasandeed cheezon ka khayal rakhain, jaise khanay mein kya pasand hai, kaise waqt guzarna pasand hai, waghera.

15. **Ek Dusre Ke Liye Dua Karna**: Apne humsafar ke liye dua karna bohot zaroori hai. Rasool Allah (SAW) ne firmaya ke ek musalman dusre musalman bhai ke liye jo dua karta hai, woh uske liye bhi hoti hai.

16. **Zabaan Se Mohabbat Ka Izhaar Karna**: Ek dusre se mohabbat bhare alfaaz kehna, jaise "Mujhe tumse mohabbat hai" ya "Tum mere liye khud ki tarah mehfooz ho", se bhi mohabbat barhti hai.

17. **Aapas Mein Tafreeh Aur Chhuti Ka Waqt Guzarna**: Tafreehi activities mein shamil hona, chhuti par jana ya aapas mein koi mazedaar activity karna bhi ek doosre ke kareeb laata hai.

In sab baaton ko amal mein laane se miya biwi ke darmiyan na sirf mohabbat barhti hai, balke unka rishta mazeed mazboot hota hai aur Allah ke nazdeek bhi pasandeeda hota hai.

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