Sasural mein pyar se rehne ke liye Islamic tariqe mein kuch ahm nikaat par amal karna zaroori hota hai. Ye nikaat shohar aur biwi dono ke liye hain taake dono ke beech mohabbat aur ittehad barqarar rahe.
1. **Ikhlaq aur Husn-e-Muamalaat**: Achha sulook aur husn-e-ikhlaq sabse pehle zaroori hai. Sasural walon ke saath narmi se baat karna aur unki izzat karna chahiye.
2. **Sabr aur Tahammul**: Har rishtay mein choti-moti tanqeed ya issues hotay hain. Sabr se kaam lein, aur kabhi bhi ghusse mein jawab dene se bachain.
3. **Haqooq-ul-Ibad ka Khayal**: Shohar, biwi, saas, sasur, sabke apne apne haqooq hain. Sabke haqooq ko samjhein aur ada karne ki koshish karein.
4. **Mashwaray ka Andaz**: Agar koi masla ya problem ho, to pyaar aur izzat se mashwara karein. Islami tareeqon mein mashwaray ko ahmiyat di gayi hai.
5. **Dua aur Ibadat**: Har kaam ki kamyabi ke liye Allah se dua karna zaroori hai. Namaz ki pabandi aur Quran ki tilawat se dil ko sukoon milta hai aur masail bhi asan ho jate hain.
6. **Maaf Karna Aur Maafi Maangna**: Ghalati sabse hoti hai. Apne saathi ko maaf karna aur apni ghalti par maafi maangna ek ahm sunnat hai.
7. **Khidmat aur Ehsan**: Sasural walon ki khidmat karna aur unke liye asaaniyan paida karna bhi ek acha amal hai. Ye amal mohabbat aur izzat ko barhata hai.
Sasural mein pyar se rehne ke liye Islamic tariqe ko samajhne ke liye hadees se bhi rahnumai milti hai. Neeche kuch hadeesain di gayi hain jo ke sasural ke mahool mein pyar mohabbat aur husn-e-suluk ko promote karne mein madadgar hain:
1. **Ikhlaq aur Husn-e-Muamalaat**: Rasulullah ﷺ ne farmaya,
**"Khairukum khairukum li-ahlihi, wa ana khairukum li-ahli"**
(Tum mein se behtareen wo hai jo apne ghar walon ke saath accha hai, aur main apne ghar walon ke liye sab se accha hoon).
(Tirmizi: 3895)
Is hadees se pata chalta hai ke achha sulook aur husn-e-ikhlaq sabse pehle ghar walon ke saath hona chahiye.
2. **Sabr aur Tahammul**: Rasulullah ﷺ ne farmaya:
**"Allah ke nazdeek sabr ka darja bohat aala hai"**
(Bukhari, 1302)
Jab sasural mein koi mushkil ya tension ho, to sabr se kaam lena chahiye.
3. **Haqooq-ul-Ibad ka Khayal**: Hadees mein hai:
**"Kullu kum ra'in wa kullukum mas'oolun 'an ra'iyyatihi."**
(Tum mein se har ek zimmedar hai, aur har ek se uske matehat logon ke bare mein sawal hoga.)
(Bukhari: 893)
Sasural mein har kisi ke apne haqooq hain jinko ada karna zaroori hai.
4. **Maaf Karna Aur Maafi Maangna**: Hadees mein hai:
**"Man laa yarham laa yurham."**
(Jo rahm nahi karta uspar rahm nahi kiya jata.)
(Bukhari: 5997)
Rishton mein maafi aur rahm zaroori hai, yeh mohabbat ko mazboot karta hai.
5. **Mashwara Karna**: Nabi ﷺ ne farmaya:
**"Aur jo shakhs mashwara karta hai, kabhi nuksaan nahi uthata."**
(Ibn Majah: 3866)
Apne masail ka hal pyar aur izzat ke saath mashwara kar ke nikaalna chahiye.
6. **Dua Aur Ibadat**: Rasulullah ﷺ ne farmaya:
**"Dua ibadat ka mughz hai."**
(Tirmizi: 3371)
Har mushkil aur maamla ke liye Allah se dua karna chahiye.
In hadeeson se sabak milta hai ke sasural mein pyar aur mohabbat se rehne ke liye husn-e-suluk, sabr, mashwara, dua, aur haqooq-ul-ibad ka khayal rakhna zaroori hai.
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