Shohar ko khush karne ke liye Islam mein kuch tareeqe hain jo ek behtar aur khushgawar shadi-shuda zindagi ke liye madadgar sabit hote hain. Yahan kuch Islamic tareeqe aur references diye gaye hain:
1. **Shohar ki itaat aur izzat**: Islam mein biwi ko shohr ki itaat karne aur izzat karne ki talqeen ki gayi hai. Allah ke Rasool (SAW) ne farmaya, "Agar main kisi insan ko dusre insan ke samne sajda karne ka hukm deta, toh main aurat ko apne shohar ke samne sajda karne ka hukm deta." (Tirmidhi). Yeh hadees shohr ki ahmiyat ko wazeh karti hai.
2. **Husn-e-Sulook**: Shohar ke saath husn-e-sulook aur achi guftagu se pesh aana bhi ek zaroori cheez hai. Prophet Muhammad (SAW) ne farmaya, "Momin mardon mein behtareen wo hai jo apni biwiyon ke saath accha hai." (Tirmidhi). Shohar se mohabbat bhare alfaaz istemal karein aur unhein apne jazbaat se mutmaeen karein.
3. **Shohar ki Khidmat**: Shohar ki zarooraton ka khayal rakhna, unhein waqt par khana dena, aur unke kapde saaf rakhna bhi ek biwi ka farz hai. Hazrat Ayesha (RA) se riwayat hai ke Rasool Allah (SAW) ne farmaya, "Jo biwi apne shohr ke haq mein iman laane aur Allah ki raza ke liye khidmat karti hai, wo jannat mein apne shohr ke saath hogi."
4. **Sabr aur Tahammul**: Shohar ke saath sabr aur tahammul se kaam lena bohot zaroori hai. Har waqt tanqeed karne ke bajaye, buray waqt mein unka saath dein aur unhe hosla dein.
5. **Shohar ki Pasand ko Ahmiyat Dena**: Shohar ki pasand ka khayal rakhna, chaahe woh khane se mutaliq ho, kapron se ya kisi aur cheez se. Apne aap ko unke liye sanwarna, unki pasand ke mutabiq kapde pehnna, bhi mohabbat badhane ka sabab banta hai.
6. **Namaz aur Du'a ki Ahmiyat**: Allah se du'a karein ke aapke aur aapke shohr ke darmiyan mohabbat aur samajhdari mein izafa ho. Namaz ke zariye bhi shohar biwi ke darmiyan mohabbat aur barkat mein izafa hota hai.
7. **Shohar ke Faislon ki Taqdeer**: Islam mein biwi ko shohr ke faislon ka ehtram karne ki talqeen ki gayi hai. Shohar ki baat ko samajhna aur unki raaye ki qadr karna ek khushgawar rishta banane mein madadgar hota hai. Isse shohr ko ehsaas hota hai ke uski raaye ki bhi ahmiyat hai.
8. **Shohar ko Support Karna**: Shohar ki zarurat ke waqt uska saath dena aur uske faislon mein support karna, chaahe woh maali maamlaat hoon ya aurt ke saath koi dusri cheez. Yeh support shohar ko ehsaas dilata hai ke uski biwi uske saath hai, chahe jo bhi ho.
9. **Ghar ke Maamlaat Mein Shohar ki Madad**: Shohar ko ghar ke maamlaat mein bhi shareek karein. Yeh aapke darmiyan behtar samajhdari aur mohabbat ko badhane ka sabab banta hai. Hazrat Fatima (RA) ne bhi apne shohr Hazrat Ali (RA) ke saath milkar ghar ke kaamon mein madad ki, jo ek misali rishta tha.
10. **Mitti bolna aur burai se bachaana**: Shohr ke samne hamesha meethi boli bolein aur burai se ijtenaab karein. Burai aur tanqeed se bachna ek khushgawar rishta banata hai. Qur'an mein farmaya gaya hai, "Aur tum logon se khoob achhi baat kiya karo." (Surah Al-Baqarah, 2:83)
11. **Shohar ki Zindagi Mein Khushi Layein**: Shohar ko choti choti khushiyan dekar uski zindagi mein rang bharna zaroori hai. Chaahe woh choti si surprise party ho ya uski pasandida cheez ka intizaam karna, yeh cheezein mohabbat ko mazeed mazboot karti hain.
12. **Shohar ki Ghalti ko Maaf Karna**: Sab ko ghaltiyaan hoti hain, aur Islam mein sabr aur maafi ka taaleem di gayi hai. Shohar ki choti choti ghaltiyon ko nazar andaz karna aur maaf karna ek behtar rishta banata hai.
13. **Shohar ke Rizq Mein Barkat Ki Du'a**: Shohar ki kamai aur rizq mein barkat ki du'a karein. Rasool Allah (SAW) ne farmaya, "Jo biwi apne shohr ki kamai mein barkat ki du'a karti hai, Allah uske rizq mein izafa karta hai." Yeh hadees shohr ki maali halat ko behtar karne ke liye du'a ki ahmiyat ko wazeh karti hai.
14. **Shohar se Achi Baatein Seekhna**: Shohar se achi baatein seekhna aur unhe amal mein lana bhi ek tareeqa hai. Agar shohr kisi achi cheez ko dars deta hai ya naseehat karta hai, us par amal karna aur usse ilm hasil karna rishta ko mazboot banata hai.
In tamam baaton ka maqsad ek khushgawar aur barakat wali zindagi guzarni hai jahan dono miya-biwi ek dosre ka izzat, khayal, aur mohabbat karein. Islam mein shohr aur biwi ke rishtay ko ek ahem darja diya gaya hai, aur is rishtay ko mazboot banane ke liye dono ka ek dosre ke haqooq ka khayal rakhna zaroori hai.
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